"Pulling the Trigger"

In life we sometimes make hasty decisions and other times we make sound decisions but either way our actions create reactions. Once we pull the trigger we have to wait to see the outcome.
Asking question such as "will it turn out in our favor or will it blow up in our faces."

I recently pulled the trigger and had it turn out sour, making me have to pick up the pieces. Even after the apology was given it left our relationship hurt and battered.

Making decisions in life can be tough but decisions big or small have to be made. We all have to deal with the fall out.

Before making decisions big or small listen to your 1st mind, most times that gut feeling is right.

• Think through the decisions, envision the different ways it could go Good or BAD.
• Take ownership of your decision once made.
• Don't point the finger
• If the decision turns out positive congratulate yourself but don't gloat.
• Make it right or learn from the situation if you cant correct it.

Remember making decisions is the first passage in life. You have been doing it since you were able to talk. Which makes you an old pro at any age; therefore, remember what you have done and learn from it. Even when making a decision poses a threat to your happy life, just keep in mind not making a decision is just as bad and as getting a horrible outcome.

Decision making means freedom, it means love, life, and lessons. Do not end up like the person who is making the same bad decisions at 40 they were making at 20. Live life, Pull the Trigger and you will see that you will live a smarter more fulfilling life. If you need help crawling out of the aftermath however, check out "The Power of Recovery" on my blog.