Week 3: Pull the Trigger

It's time to PULL THE TRIGGER there is only one full week left in the month after this. You don't want to be caught with you pants down. You will regret not completing all the tasks you planned on.

With that being said lets take a moment to celebrate the victories you have accomplished.

 

Yay Yay Yay Go You!



 



Never forget to congratulate yourself on all your victories just don't go overboard, you don't need those new red bottoms, a Panera trip will do.

Remember pulling the trigger is such a hard thing to do, but a necessary part of life. So visit my article on "Pulling the Trigger" for a little inspiration. I know you can do this just put your mind to it and make it happen. Have a great week Dashers!

 

Pulling the Trigger check it out I'm sure it will help!

 

Week2: Make constant Assesment

Hey you Dashers I'm sure you had an awesome week of planning and accomplishing the things you have put off for sooooo long.

Now its time to look back and then look forward. What did you really accomplish? What kept you from completing all your tasks?

Here is the time to be real with yourself, did you just not feel like it, did you not use your time wisely? Whatever it could be its OK, just try again this week, but write down beside each goal why you didn't complete it. Then simply complete it!

Again make sure your goals are thought through fully. Don't put goals you think you want but be realistic and choose things that are real and choose things that are hard and easy. Here are some examples of goals:


Goal 1

1. Work on my attitude by buying a self help book on how to improve my attitude.
1. Complete book by 04/10/2014

Goal 2

1. Save for a new baby stroller by bringing my lunch to work 4 days a week and cutting my shopping on misc. items by 50%
1. Buy stroller by 05/04/2014

Here is a goal sheet to help guide you, GOOD LUCK THIS WEEK! Remember keep it SULTRY!

My Sultry Goal by sultrydash

Week 1: Stop the BS

No more procrastination its time to get things accomplished!

1. Start setting  goals(financial, personal, career)

• Remember create SMART goals
• See my blog about setting goals

2.       Keep your BS meter on at all times

• check out my blog on BS meters.

3.       Create a dream board and visit it every day

• Oprah has a great digital dream board program
• http://www.oprah.com/spirit/O-Dream-Board-Envision-Your-Best-LifeTM

4.       Recruit help from friends or professionals to help keep your motivation

• There is a dynamic article on my blog about "Pulling the trigger" I'm sure it will get your gears going.

5.       Have confidence in yourself and don’t give up!

Here are some great templates to help organize all aspects of your life.

Grocery List
Errands/ToDo
Finance-Booklet

Email me at sultrydash@gmail.com if you have any questions, need advice or have any concerns.

The Power of "Recovery"

RECOVERY has to be the most powerful attribute a person can have. You may argue and say forgiveness, kindness, strength are but I will disagree. Without the power of Recovery we will all end up with serious mental health issues, that cant be cured.

The body is amazing and the mind is even more extraordinary. I'm sure you have heard the stories of people going in to comas and waking up after months and years. Only leaving the explanation of it being a miracle and that the mind just needed to fix itself.

Well some of us don't get a time out in that manner. We have had to learn the art of  "RECOVERING" since we were children.

That time your dog died or ran away, the first heartbreak. Some of us have encountered even more dire and tragic situations: those who have faced abuse from a loved one, stricken with poverty or faced a tragic health or life changing event.

However big or small we still all have to pull ourselves up by our boot traps and recover from the situation, in our own special way. You may even think your friends problems are small compared to yours or maybe large compared to your own situation, but I say to each his own.  Only you know how something touches or hurts you.

This is why The Power of Recovery is so important! The Webster dictionary said it the best "regaining possession of something stolen or lost." WOW you cant tell me that when you are down that you don't feel bamboozled, stolen from and the feeling of lack of control. When you don't have the ablility to recover you loose the ablitlity to make decisions. Life feels like its spiraling out of control and you just want it to stop.

Choosing to overcome your situation is a tough decision but those of you who choose to RECOVER, made the hard decision. Giving up is easier than trying, so don't take the easy way out. Making the decision to recover can be done in many ways.

1. Religion/Spiritual-Turning to a higher power and accepting the love that is preached in religion gives many people hope and confidence to continue on happily.
2. Professionals-Are always good for learning how to channel anger or confusion in order to help the mind recover from stress.
3. Mediation-Sitting with yourself and allowing your mind and body to become as one. Helps you to focus and relax in order for you to see things clearly.
4. Head On- Attack certain situation head on, get your answers, but not at the cost of you life or health.
5. Closure/Forgiveness- Sometimes the answer will not be revealed so you have to forgive the person or the universe, in order for you to move on and have a happy life.

Make the decision today that tomorrow will be a better day, a new start and new more happier you!

"Pulling the Trigger"

In life we sometimes make hasty decisions and other times we make sound decisions but either way our actions create reactions. Once we pull the trigger we have to wait to see the outcome.
Asking question such as "will it turn out in our favor or will it blow up in our faces."

I recently pulled the trigger and had it turn out sour, making me have to pick up the pieces. Even after the apology was given it left our relationship hurt and battered.

Making decisions in life can be tough but decisions big or small have to be made. We all have to deal with the fall out.

Before making decisions big or small listen to your 1st mind, most times that gut feeling is right.

• Think through the decisions, envision the different ways it could go Good or BAD.
• Take ownership of your decision once made.
• Don't point the finger
• If the decision turns out positive congratulate yourself but don't gloat.
• Make it right or learn from the situation if you cant correct it.

Remember making decisions is the first passage in life. You have been doing it since you were able to talk. Which makes you an old pro at any age; therefore, remember what you have done and learn from it. Even when making a decision poses a threat to your happy life, just keep in mind not making a decision is just as bad and as getting a horrible outcome.

Decision making means freedom, it means love, life, and lessons. Do not end up like the person who is making the same bad decisions at 40 they were making at 20. Live life, Pull the Trigger and you will see that you will live a smarter more fulfilling life. If you need help crawling out of the aftermath however, check out "The Power of Recovery" on my blog.

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To a wonderful man who cares and encourages me like no other!

 

Of course this means great relationship tips and we will take this journey together my downfalls, and my victories will be your playbook for success!